5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER TOLERATE IN A RELATIONSHIP

5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER TOLERATE IN A RELATIONSHIP

DON’T TAKE RELATIONSHIPS ONLY AS SOLUTIONS

It is obvious that your partner is the most trusted person in your life and you want to share all your troubles with them. However, you must keep in mind that they too are humans who have similar emotions and troubles just like you do. When we start taking our relationships as the solution to all our problems, we are vulnerable to becoming burdens in our partner’s life.

DON’T BE PERSONALLY AFFECTED BY EVERYTHING

As humans, we say many things which we don’t actually mean or sometimes they even come out as something completely different from what we meant. It happens with your partner too. Deep attachments sometimes compel you to react to anything and everything that is said to you. However, you must take time to fully process your partner’s words before reacting to them and must remain composed throughout the process. In short, you mustn’t always take things personally.

DON’T BELITTLE YOURSELF

It’s quite common for people to let their relationships have a negative effect on their self-esteem. But, you should never let this happen. You should be fully aware of who you are and what you are capable of. That’s the key to a perfect relationship.

 DON’T SAY ‘YES’ TO EVERYTHING

It is okay and rather healthy to not agree upon certain things when two people love each other. Your role in a relationship is never to only satisfy your partner’s ego by accepting whatever they say to you. Especially if you are a woman, you are expected to do just that. Never succumb to that and pretend as if you are a person who lacks a strong personality. Remember that he fell in love with a strong woman and if he demands otherwise, rethink the relationship itself.

DON’T ALWAYS WAIT FOR AN APOLOGY

It’s not alright to always wait for the other person to apologize first. Sometimes you have to do it as well. Whenever there is an argument, you must take a step back and reflect upon what it was really for. The two of you must discuss things like adults and only then arrive at a decision. Mutual decisions are very crucial to the foundations of a healthy relationship.

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Understanding the need of adolescent child as a parent

Understanding the need of adolescent child as a parent 

An adolescent is at the age of our lives when lots of changes are happening. changes can be either  in the physical, social, emotional or psychological, inside and outside our bodies, adolescent! The name alone can send chills up the brain of many parents. It is a period of enormous changes and we all have gone through this phase of our lives when the conflicts between the parents and child begin to arise. Suddenly, the relationship starts changing between them. Thy both find it difficult to understand each other's perspective and to make their own respective views understood to each other. The reason behind this is the fact that both the parties have their own values and belief system regarding the way they react to each other and here the age-gap thing comes into the play. A teenager's brain is very good at experience new things, finding out new opportunities, taking risks and sensation seeking. Visualizing their children doing these things or even thinking about them doing such thing make parents anxious. To understand the need of your adolescent child as a parent in order to help them grow in a flawless manner! so, here are some points which can be applied and will be proved to be helpful in creating health bond with you adolescent child:- 

Shaping the personality of child 

     Enhance their personality by developing good character, moral values and temperament, all this can be done to some extent in the following ways:- 

1. Letting them participate in different extra curricular activities.

2. Help them to nurture their own glorious self by making them learn how to speak up for themselves and put their own paints forward. 

3. Educate them about inculcating healthy habits in their lifestyle and learning about impressive body language skills to make up their personality as a whole. 

2. Helping them in taking up the responsibilities.

3. Being there for them to talk 

4. Respect child's privacy 

 

"Be there best friend at every point of life"